I am male, and share some of your assumptions you had...
That never happened to me, either... and I am over '50' now, and I will have these things! Why are you so tied to age and some sort of 'it's not gonna happen!?'
My Blockage came about through Great Trauma when a young child, believe it or not! No real fault of my own, I could not force what was not there, however regretful one can be sometimes.
What have you got to lose but Live!?